And only then, you will know if is love or were obsession. The mind is powerful, and can enfermarte or enamorarte. And everything is in the thoughts. It is tuna to delude itself by somebody, but to happen of the emotion to the obsession no longer is healthy. In occasions, you will have pair and you will be obsessed on the other person, that one who you are not able to remove from your mind. It is simple. You are enamored with your pair, because you know although your mind this enamoring with the other person, for being a dream nonrealised.
The love, is based on an understanding and respect of your pair. You see with clarity its defects and nevertheless you like to him to its life. In the obsession, it must to the low self-esteem ” if it leaves me, I am not going to find to another one persona” , ” It cannot leave me by ella”. It is indeed when you finish relations without exit, when it appears a new love How you want that it appears if you are not free first? How you want that enamoring approaches to you, if it sees that you remember to the other person and her new pair. Also, the imagination exerts influence in the obsession. It is easy to dream that a person has the characteristics of the pair, and to see it by far, that face a real relation and to be rejected. Without forcing to change to nobody, nor to control its feelings, we must stop being victims and to being a little more egoistic, to think about we ourself, than the pride and the car acceptance more leave to the front, and to feel that it is not necessary that the others need our cares to be able to be happy.